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WhoserMomma!
09-30-2008, 01:48 PM
:newmom :sigh I'm kind of relieved in a way...:para

I won't tell Sammi that though.

She said she went to school yesterday and he totally blew her off and it really upset her. :shakehead

She said they were holding hands everyday (:twitch) and he always waited outside class to walk her to her next one hand in hand (:twitch) and always ate lunch together. She said they would always hug goodbye (:twitch) and all his friends said he liked her a lot.
Well she liked him back as much. :shakehead


Then yesterday...he aparently blew her off. She cried in school and he walked up to her and said that he's sorry and wasn't blowing her off. I told her probably because he felt bad because she was upset.

Then she called him after school and he told that he's sorry he led her on and that he only wants to be friends (Well, because of Dennis' rules that's all they could have been anyway.)

So she keeps asking me what happend...:para I don't know.

I went through the whole thing with her and told her that she gorgeous because she looks like me (she didn't find that as amusing as I did) and that she is super smart. She can easily find someone else that will fawn over her and not lead her on. I mean come'on...she always goes after the doofy look'n guys. :shakehead She needs to stop thinking she's not good enough. Anyway, I told her that sadly this won't be the last time this happens. Then asked her if she could wait til she's 35...:para

DANG IT! All that work on that mum! :shakehead :teehee

Dennis seems to think that we are not in the same "class" as his family and friends. Small towns SUCK! We are not rich and not in the political class like his mayor grandfather. :newmom

No one is too good for my baby! :no

So now all his friends won't stop calling her and messaging her on myspace. Gee...they couldn't wait! LOL!

Pezzle Stick
09-30-2008, 01:54 PM
Ugh, I'm not looking forward to teenage years. :newmom Breaking up is totally devistating to them. They just think the world will end. Sammi is beautiful and she will find someone else. :hugs

Double Blessings
09-30-2008, 01:55 PM
like hitting on her? that just sucks! poor Sammi! she will find a guy who will make her very happy! it just may take her until she's 35 to find him! :hugs

SEEK
09-30-2008, 01:57 PM
So now all his friends won't stop calling her and messaging her on myspace. Gee...they couldn't wait! LOL!

:woot :lol

I'm sorry she's having a rough time with this... but you're right. She's a hottie and won't have any trouble finding a new love ~ if only we could get her to realize this :hmm

Autumnlyfe
09-30-2008, 01:58 PM
Awwww I am SO not looking forward to the day Indy cries in my arms over some guy! It will break my heart. I am so sorry .

WhoserMomma!
09-30-2008, 02:02 PM
Thanks guys! That's what so frustrating as that she doesn't realize how pretty, smart and nice she is!

I told her to go to school today and completely blow him off and don't give him the power of taking her joy. All I get is...But I liked him so much :wall

She is soooo different than me! I don't even wanna say what I would have done when I was back in high school! :lmao

I've got a really good kid. :para

Bare Maiden
09-30-2008, 02:05 PM
She is a great kid Dayna. I know that she will get past this and you are an AWESOME mom for helping her out.

She will realize just how great she is someday...teenage years SUCK

Candyland
09-30-2008, 03:02 PM
She's gorgeous and he, well...wasn't. :para Him better than her? Seriously. She probably intimidates the socks off of him. :roll

Iggy
09-30-2008, 03:09 PM
:word Tell her some (a lot) of boys/men are very intimidated by women/girls who are smart AND pretty. Men suck. She's so young still, I bet she gets over this quickly. Poor baby :comfort

WhoserMomma!
09-30-2008, 03:11 PM
She's gorgeous and he, well...wasn't. :para Him better than her? Seriously. She probably intimidates the socks off of him. :roll

You know I thought about that too. Because he was sooooo shy around her besides holding her hand.

And you know I don't know if I mentioned it earlier...

His best friend asked her to homecoming first and she told him no because she wanted to go with the guy she went with.

This other guy was upset and really liked her. However, he still talked to her and such...She told me that she didn't really like him.

I saw him this morning when I dropped her off. They walked up to each other and walked into school together.

Uh...:para...he was actually very cute! a lot cuter than Where's Waldo! :shakehead I know its not about all looks. (They do help though! :lol) But what the heck is wrong with her! This kid actually fawns over her! Girls are so flippin weird like that!!! They always fall into the reverse psych crap!

I'm glad I look like my avatar! :shakehead



:lol

zak frost
09-30-2008, 03:25 PM
Sorry... That is so hard as a teenager.

My guys aren't dating until they are out of the house.

Jennifur
09-30-2008, 03:33 PM
Poor Sammi :( I am so glad my boys aren't dating till they are 30. I have plenty of time to drill into them how to treat a woman. I've already got them bringing mama flowers whenever they go outside :lol

Free Bird
09-30-2008, 03:49 PM
No one is too good for my baby! :no
:word I agree. If anything she's too good for him.

She'd look cute with my Chris. He's her age, he's about 5'10, on the swim team & decent grades. They can have a long distance love affair, that way Dennis doesn't have to worry. :lol

SEEK
09-30-2008, 03:51 PM
She'd look cute with my Chris. He's her age, he's about 5'10, on the swim team & decent grades. They can have a long distance love affair, that way Dennis doesn't have to worry. :lol

and he looks cute in his swim skins :para

:lmao

WhoserMomma!
09-30-2008, 03:56 PM
:word I agree. If anything she's too good for him.

She'd look cute with my Chris. He's her age, he's about 5'10, on the swim team & decent grades. They can have a long distance love affair, that way Dennis doesn't have to worry. :lol

:hmm You may be on to something. Do you think they will be okay for an arranged long distance love affair? :lol

Iggy
09-30-2008, 04:16 PM
If Chris has a MySpace, I bet you could make that happen :para

LizzardFace GizzardBreath
09-30-2008, 04:34 PM
She is absolutely beautiful and he is not that cute at all :para

I loved the dorky red heads too though :para

He probably felt like he wasnt good enough for her

TheBudsMom
09-30-2008, 05:02 PM
:comfort Poor girl! Caleb is the same way with not thinking he is good enough to go after the hot and popular chicks. I don't understand these kids :sigh Heck I always thought the higher up they are the barder they fal :crack

Before you go jumping the gun with Lissy's Chris just remember Caleb is still single and has a myspace :hehe :plotting

WhoserMomma!
09-30-2008, 05:05 PM
:comfort Poor girl! Caleb is the same way with not thinking he is good enough to go after the hot and popular chicks. I don't understand these kids :sigh Heck I always thought the higher up they are the barder they fal :crack

Before you go jumping the gun with Lissy's Chris just remember Caleb is still single and has a myspace :hehe :plotting

:lmao She would SOOOOO KILL ME! If she knew I was talking about her like this!

:para Hey you guys...I was on her myspace again...:lmao

And I found a picture of the his best friend...the guy who really likes her and asked her first to the homecoming. :evillaugh

He's a really cute kid! But he's only 6' so far. :shakehead :teehee

jaam4eva
09-30-2008, 05:18 PM
my daddy just always told us to kick the guys in the nuts.

Spuds
09-30-2008, 05:24 PM
Tell her to read this thread. :rofl

:( Poor thing... She'll bounce back...only takes a week or 2, right? :crack

Supercalafragilistic
09-30-2008, 05:59 PM
Sammi is sooo gorgeous, and like it was previously said...he sure wasn't! :lol

I bet there are a lot of guys that really like her, but at that age, most guys are still pretty shy.....

Dixie Momma
09-30-2008, 06:05 PM
Well, as horrible as the little scumbag was to dump her, at least she already has people after her. Maybe he backed off b/c he knew his best friend liked her so much?

Ringlette
09-30-2008, 07:27 PM
I am so glad I'm not the only one who thought he was a dork.:lol I was thinking, damn he scored up a few notches! Maybe she is going for personality, which is really sweet. Although, since he did this, his personality can't be all that good.:no Can she still not see how much she has to offer even after all of the messages and calls since their breakup?:(

Mingle Bells
10-01-2008, 02:59 PM
Does this boy have a MySpace :para Just askin....

Free Bird
10-01-2008, 03:06 PM
and he looks cute in his swim skins :para

:lmao
Thanks, I think. :crack

:hmm You may be on to something. Do you think they will be okay for an arranged long distance love affair? :lol
They would have no choice. :lol

If Chris has a MySpace, I bet you could make that happen :para
Chris has a myspace. I think he's number 2 on my friends list. :para


Before you go jumping the gun with Lissy's Chris just remember Caleb is still single and has a myspace :hehe :plotting
:gunslinger Back off sister, you should've offered first.
:snicker