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SnowBirdie
10-28-2006, 06:46 PM
i just read on another board about what a ped told a bf mom when her baby didnt' gain as much at 6 months as he thought she should...you ready for this? mind you i am not copying and pasting a post, but the ped's comments.

"The paediatrician suggested we breastfeed her for 15 minutes then offer her a bottle of formula (not EBM as “pumping pulls unready milk from the breast which is lacking the proper nutrients”) and if she takes more than 1 oz then, at the same feed the following day, we drop the breast and just offer her formula. His reasoning is that “she may be too tired to suckle sufficiently”. Huh? This is a 6-month old baby who, until recently, was happy to feed for half an hour. He also tried to suggest that maybe I wasn’t producing enough milk (over the same period her sister gained more than enough)." :lmao

the mom knew it was rubbish, and i am not making fun of her at all...but that doctor needs to get a brain, and i thought you guys would appreciate how bizarre that sounds. that doesn't even make any sense, not to mention would really mess up her nursing and the baby's tummy (reflux). :roll

i almost peed my pants reading that one! i think that takes the award for the most idiotic and uninformed comment from a ped that i have ever heard. what does he think??? we have little timers in our breasts that are ticking down the time it takes to "cook" a batch of milk and add nutrients???? unready milk????? what the heck would that be made of, and where do the magic nutrients get "added" to this unready milk???? on some production line somewhere in our breasts (when the milk passes this point nutrients are added by the magic breastmilk fortifier?)????? sad thing is he was serious:shakehead :jawdrop

Santa's little dragonfly
10-28-2006, 06:58 PM
That is terrible!

zak frost
10-28-2006, 07:07 PM
What an idiot!

Duck
10-30-2006, 07:56 PM
Wow, don't you just love "experts" :lol

gypsymom
10-30-2006, 07:59 PM
OMG He is the George W. Bush of pediatricians. :para They must have "bought" their degrees together while they were too busy :party to study.

Mingle Bells
10-30-2006, 08:42 PM
:wall

WhoserMomma!
10-30-2006, 11:07 PM
Just a thought...Maybe the ped never said that and she wants to stop bfing and that is her weird way of making herself feel better about it. Then again, maybe they are just idiots. :lol

SnowBirdie
10-31-2006, 01:17 AM
i would say it is possible he never said that, but really i have heard very similar things from lots of peds. i have been told that if i bf any more often than every two hours the milk wouldn't come out because it wasn't "made in there yet" and might damage my breasts from all that hard sucking, and i have had peds tell me to give formula for reflux, add formula to help give my breasts a rest from making milk(huh?) and then i would have lots more milk with rested breasts if i did that often. i never complained i had "tired" brests, but they assume if you bf twins your breasts are falling off, i guess...lol. that is only the tip of the iceberg of idiotic comments and suggestions i could list, so i do believe her. she kept bf and ignored him anyway...lol.

i just wish that health professionals were taught more about it, and it disturbs me every time i hear peds say inaccurate things about bf or make horrible suggestions. not only are they setting up mom for failure and baby for illness, but a ped who doesn't know about bf doesn't know about infant or toddler nutrition, which is sort of essential to baby's health. that is just awful to me to have so many undereducated doctors treating innocent kids incorrectly and messing up moms' self-confidence at the same time. :(

SnowBirdie
10-31-2006, 01:18 AM
gypsy...that is funny! :lol

Bella~*
11-04-2006, 06:11 AM
How fricking crazy!

:para

MotoMama
11-04-2006, 12:24 PM
:poundhead Weird!

myTrine
11-04-2006, 01:24 PM
Good thing she knew better!